What could be the result if I block a covert narc back after he said blocks were going back up, maybe we try this again?

They get off on it actually. For some its a form of sadism to watch you agonize while they have you in there cross hairs. Dont allow this person to drag you through a maze of bad behaviour. In the end they will usually discard you and make it look like its your fault. Its a vicious awakening to cluster b but hopefully this response will start you in a different direction where you will find healing and wellness, truth and peace

This block unblock, delete, wall up on other sites and so forth is only going to stop when you make the consious effort to shift.

Ask yourself if others do this to you or you do this to others? Ill bet your answer is no. Thats because this action is a very twisted mechanism designed to hurt, keep you off balance, use as a cloak while they hunt, secure or chase after other supply. They prefer to hold the cards, the control and the longer you play into this the longer healing is going to take.

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you cant control them

The narcs game is control. They block, unblock for a few reasons. We can get into the weeds but this is where we enlighten you how this works.

you didnt cause whats going on here

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

so what will a narc do if you block him? Well most likely try other hoovers. Send out a smear campaign and flying monkeys and do everything to either destroy you or reel you back in. Nothing good comes from engaging with a narcissist. They need to be in control. You arent a human you are supply. Your not in a position where they think of your feelings or thoughts or have concerns … a narc just wants free reign and your submission while they play with you or carry in their agenda behind your back.

cluster b folks fall into sub chategories such as covert, overt, histrionic, psychopath, sociopath, malignant, somatic and borderline and no they dont all fit into nice little neat boxes and thst can be mind bending trying to figure out according to the dsm -5 where they land and btw most npd folks are either not diagnosed or misdiagnosed and they can be your mother, son, pastor, president or even sleeping in your bed. So this is heavy stuff. Its overwhelming and it is an adjustment to figure out all is not well in the land of oz.

there are stages of the npd relationship cycle and you are in the devalue stage.

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second stage after the intense rush of stage one is the slip from being all good to now being all bad and you get devalued more often then not you wont even be aware you have went from pedestle to shit on a stick.

you do have power. You do have agency and you can be liberated when you make a consious effort to quit engaging with them no matter what they throw at you. You do have the ability to say not my monkies, not my circus. They dont disappear even when your life moves on. Some will never hoover you when you cut them off but most either hoover or kerp tabs in you. Never ever , ever accept a hoover itll be worse then the first round i can tell you that.

you were blocked because you either exposed them, they felt shame, they devalued you and found new supply or they want to see if they can play some more or punish you.

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You shift away from them, their toxicity, the games and they way they cowardly drag you with them addicted, pining, confused, and this is where you say to yourself this is childs play and it doesnt feel good.

Normal people dont give you the silent treatment or stonewall. They dont weaponize or withhold sex or intimacy. Normal folks dont engage in control, lies, ommissions, cheating, high conflict, they dont have histories or trails of many effed up relationships and blank chunks of time where they fill in the gaps with all sorts of horrible things they have done theyld lime to keep secrete from you.

want to stop the brain fog, confusion and feel like your desperate to get out of a situation where it doesnt feel right but your overwhelmed? Seek a therapist that specializes in cluster b or you will just rapid cycle and continue dating one cluster b after another.

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you cant change them

First is the idealize, securing, grooming mirroring and sometimes love bomb stage. Meet dr jekyl. The nice smooth masked human who has used manipulation to secure you as supply

However when it comes to toxicity leave that to a psychiatrist or mental health expert to diagnose but you can recignice its not healthy and stop the abuse.

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Then its hoover rinse and repeat. These cycles can go on for decades until you say i cant do this anymore and educate yourself in cluster b and find a good therapist.

they dont fling themselves at hookers and blow, infinite dating sites, profiles, aliasses, porn, addictions and sibstance abuse. This is not someone you want to have a marriage or bring kids into the world with.

the reason you are here, you have questions and they are putting you through toxic control we call the push-pull. Can i diagnose them ? No.

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this block you unblock you block delete unblock you is the equivalant of a petulant child who does not know how to adult and cannot display empathy or use healthy communication. They arent your twin flame, they arent your soul mate and they really are folks who you need to understand arent ever going change

now youll be entering the next stage which is discard. It means they literally are going to ghost you, or keep you in limbo (if they have not fully secured new or recycled old supply). Or you flee because your sick n tired of being sick n tired or you have become stale supply and they cowardly discard you.

Oh the mind games of a narc. It saddens me, no pains me to read another example of narc 101.

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however you can put a stop by going no contact and doing some hard core work on yourself and this means admitting that when you paired with person you entered into a shared fantasy and the reality is they have a chronic mental health disorder . Its going to take time to heal. Understand the illness and with physical space and disconnection youll hopefully decypher they have a pathology that takes you reprograms your mind and now you are left trying to figure out why they donor have done and its a wake up call.

i was hoovered 20 years out after no contact and that my friend just tells you who is wearing the crazy pants. They dont want your famous apple pie recipee lets put it that way.

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This person has done this tactic before you and will do it long after the final discard (which is coming) with someone else.

in this stage you mistake manipulation for love and are wide open to being vulnerable and you have to understand this is NOT love its a tactic to reel you in

a true cluster b does not bond. They emmesh and yes they can be codependant

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